Before You Judge, Make Sure You Are Perfect

I love this quote. Its very true. But lets face it. Everyone judges at some point or time in there life. None of us can say we have not. When you meet someone for the first time you make a judgement on them. If you dont like someone you make a judgement on them and when you hear gossip you also make a judgement. And then you will make the decison to ignore gossip which is just that after all, Gossip. Or to keep it going and maybe even add to it. Didnt we all play that game as children where you all sit in a circle and one whispers to the next something and it goes around the circle and then at the end its totally different then when it started. lol. Im sure schools did it over here. Im taking about my school in england of course. If they dont do it here they should. But im sure somewhere we have all done that circle game. None of us like to be judged. Not only cause its usually not even the truth but often as it does affect relationships with not only the people that started it but people they are close to also. The judgements of one generation can go to the next generation and then you have people judging based on just gossip when they dont even know that person at all.  We all ignore it and some of us have for many years. You do get over the hurtful stage and learn to just cut it out of your lifes. And people that claim they never judge do judge.I do know some people in fact one of Ralphs sisters that trys very hard not to judge. When she hears gossip or anything negitive she stays out of it and never treats anyone different judged on gossip or well pot stiring anyone might do about another. She also teaches her children the same thing. I know theres many more families also that try but we are all human of course. But what a nicer place it would be if we all tried not to judge. And didnt pass our judgements onto the next generation. So they can have open relationships with people that are not tarnished by our words. I know thats something we try here. How about you? None of us are perfect, but we all have control on how we treat others and what we say about them. Lets not pass our negitive feelings to the next generation. Lets not teach them to Judge!