Should i say goodbye to Facebook?

I am seriously thinking of signing out of facebook. This past month i have just seen two many hurtful things that people are doing against others. Three weeks ago i was the target myself and it was pretty hurtful. It also made other people that had nothing to do with the disagreement decide to come out of there holes and get involved, with nasty little comments.
Now this past week i am sad to see comments again, not about me this time but beween two people i care very much about. (of course there are certain people that will jump on it thinking its about me!! lol.) But that aside i just think its all really sad. Everyone has disagreements but if not made public and kept beween who it belongs to it can then pass on much more quickly. One of the things that has always been a sore to me and Ralph in the past was that any disagreements beween just two people always had others running to get involved. What that always did was prolong everything and kept it going, years after it needed too be. I think by putting on facebook when your having a disagreement with someone, or upset with someone, or thereve done you wrong has that effect ten times over. Plus with facebook most of the times names are not mentioned so many many people can apply it to them self in error or others will try and guess who there talking about and that in turn creates more gossip and more ill feelings. I have deleted many people on there due to every status being a drama, good people that i really like but was depressing seeing there status everyday. Its really hard for me to want to sign off on it as i really enjoy joking with my co workers and friends, its also a way for me to stay in touch with my cousins. But its really hard too signing on and seeing people i care about making comments about each other. Then watching others getting involved and pointing fingers in the direction they think its commng from. And yes like with most people that get involved in something thats nothing to do with them, they are never on the right track, just the track they would like it to be. I know its sometimes impossible to ever solve some problems but in that case its just best to walk away and put it down to something thats never going to change. lol. But anyway im really trying to make a decision right now about facebook and if i want to contine to see things that just make me sad. And i really hope that the problems beween the two people that i care about can get solved or moved on from and i really hope that others can see the wisdom (like we have) in staying out of something thats none of any of our business.